There are many different ways to research for an upcoming sex scene.  You could chase your DH or wife around the house screaming “I need to research…hold still!” or you can roam the internet. 

When I am researching for the sex scene I sit alone in my room and lock the door, because frankly it can get kind of embarrassing the way I research.  I could look at the Kama Sutra books and try and study the pictures but you know my imagination just wouldn’t start working.  Even Lena tried to help me and send me scanned copies of these sex position cards that she has, and you know as that helped it didn’t give me what I wanted.

So I went searching the web and let me tell you there are quite a few free porn sites out there.  Yes you read that right…I do research by watching free porn.  My favorite site is www.juicyclips.com because you don’t have to download anything.  You click on a link and it takes you to a 30 second clip of the actual movie so you miss all the boring bow chicka bow-wow stuff at the beginning.

That is my advice for the day, if you are having troubles with your sex scene, and you can’t get your spouse to sit still or even tied down…then lock yourself away somewhere and watch other people do it and get your imagination flowing.